I saw this in facebook and I was thinking it isn’t right.

To me, it is about building others up first, in the process of building up, you will find your dream, or you may be even can ask those who you are helping, ask them: What am I good at? and those people will tell you. How do I know? I have experienced it. As I helped my colleague, my friends, they all find me good at one thing – teaching patiently and so I landed in my dreamland – trainer. First, one to one trainer, then corporate trainer, and soon I am destined to be a writer to help even more people, more Malaysian to be a better him/her.

So, I do not agree with the saying “If you don’t build yours, someone else will hire you to build theirs”.

Instead, help other first, give the best service you have to others, be it your colleague, your boss, your vendor, your servant, your loved one. You will then become someone very important in the community, and your dream will come up. You attract the energy, resource to you to build your dream by helping more people first. Thank you thank you thank you.

“You think you can, you can. You think you can’t, you still can…eventually” – Kent Lau

start doing something, anything, and start appreciate what you already have, already done, this will help you to grow your greater success. When you think you can’t, then don’t force yourself to think “you can”, but direct your thought to think something you already have, something you have gain sucess in, no matter how tiny, how small is that little sucessful experience, just giving thank for it.

When you think you can’t, then don’t force yourself….

Think about something good in life happened in you…maybe it is the fact that you have limbs, you can drive with hands and legs…